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You.

You are evolving, learning the real way of freedom and gracefully accepting what’s not meant for you.

Here’s something about life, we humans consistently change and adapt ourselves to the surroundings and let our past experience’s to be the sole examples of what we are supposed to do in the present. Have you ever realised of how constantly you are changing in pursuits of your life? Did you ever really take time to pause and appreciated yourself for all that you’ve been through? Did you ever realise you are growing daily? You are in process of becoming someone who you want to be. You are evolving, learning the real way of freedom and gracefully accepting what’s not meant for you. You are not just an ordinary heartbroken, strange, weak or dumb person! What you’ve been through only you are aware of it, and you’ve handled it all from tears to failures to every unexpected outcome of your life. Crying never makes you weak; it never did to anyone. Just because someone left you doesn’t mean you’re unworthy of love and light. Failures were never decided they were indications for you to push yourself even harder for the next one. Look at yourself for once and how you’ve been running through this competition of proving yourself to things that you’ve always deserved. Believe me for once all the heartbreaks you’ve faced; all the sorrows you’ve kept hidden deep down in chamber of your heart it’ll all definitely be okay! There are people out there who admire you for your smile, your way and the entire you! Because you deserve to be loved and appreciated. You are someone who deserves to have a lover who can keep you awake all night and make love! You are someone who deserves the worldly happiness and enchanting memories. Remember how you faced the darkness all by yourself and there was no one to wipe your tears? Remember when you worked hard and gave your best but still didn’t receive the validation you wanted?! Remember you were the one who made them felt special and loved but still got your heart wretched by them? You’ve been through all alone, by yourself. You’ve faced it all alone even if you didn’t want to.

Resilience…

*What is it about being resilient? How is it interconnected to every aspect of living life?*

This word ‘resilience’, evokes a power inside me. This word has it all a human would need to be inspired. Resilience is the process and outcome of successfully adapting to difficult and challenging experience, especially through mental and emotional health aspect. I have this surging thrust of energy inside me that it’s so much more than that! Strength, fierceness, power, never giving up all of it. Resilience is standing up again when you fall down, it’s becoming a support of yourself. Resilience is picking up the pieces of your shattered heart, body, mind and soul; it’s fighting back with your own life and coming out of it as a win! You rebuild yourself. You work wonders within you. You sprout as blooming flowers, after going through all of it. No matter how hard a situations punches you, knocks you down, you wake up to a better version of yourself. But I also strongly feel resiliency not only means embodying that ‘never give up’ attitude. I think it also involves recognizing that sometimes you need to fall down and break apart. And most importantly – accept this as part of your journey. This breaking, causes you to become even stronger than you were before. I want to tell you that start to see yourself as an inspiration! I want you you to recognise what all mistakes you’ve done and how you’re the better version of yourself. We all are resilient in some or the other way aren’t we? We bounce back from setbacks of our life and start loving ourselves even more becoming unbreakable. No matter what you’re going through take time to be grateful for both you mind and body. Do not give up this hope of sheer internal power inside your divine selfs! Just have the self awareness of getting through it all. Be optimistic towards what all blunders or heartbreaks you face. See yourself as a warrior. Listen, when you realise how powerful you are; you are going to fight it all.
Resilience is so much more than its psychological definition! It’s as if all is connected towards being resilient, the positivity, mental and emotional health all of that. If you’re reading this right now I want you to accept this in every inch of your neural cell and fit it in your brain that no problem no heartbeat no cause of depression is more important than you! You are your most important priority. The pain, the hurt, the grief, the denial have an ending point trust me it all ends and it ends with an inevitable stronger version of you who has faught the ordeals of life. Do not give up…

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Healing…

The idea of healing varies from different forms to all of us. Here’s a version of mine. Sometimes healing is all about letting yourself to feel. Healing is not always something that requires medications or paramedic proceedures. Are medicines actually responsible for healing your emotional wounds? According to me no they aren’t. Sometimes healing is how much you love yourself. Sometimes healing is the simple joy you find in day to day lives. Sometimes healing is knowing that you are in this world for a damn reason. Sometimes healing is talking to best friend who can listen to you. Sometimes healing feels like nothing at all, it’s like fitting yourself in every situation. It can be painful in the beginning to just live with the changes some situations might have caused. Healing is when you realise that life is so delicate to spend contemplating about something or someone who just happened to leave. The stages of healing might break you inside at first but it’s all going to be worth it at the end. Healing takes time to explore and own your strengths and develop awareness of the many different parts or perspectives you have. Listen, you are going to be okay. There’s no need to apologise for whatever your emotions are. Just because you are healing an emotional trauma doesn’t mean you are weak there’s no way you have to feel that you are weak it will worsen the healing process. Do not away the emotions from yourself instead bind yourself in the reality. You’ll face alot of stages in this process of healing your emotional wounds such as grief, denial, anxiety but then you’ll accept yourself and the reality will no longer haunt you or terrify you. Human bodies are filled with millions of emotions and each of them counts. If we remove these emotions there won’t be feelings and without feelings soul will not be into existence and without soul there is no life. I want to tell you that healing process is difficult but not impossible. Please don’t force yourself to try out complicated things, instead look for beauty in yourself, make yourself a priority. Do not see yourself just as a subject; see yourself as a life. Forgive your past and look at it as a blessing for it taught you to be the strongest. Everytime you look in the mirror fall in love with yourself. If tears rush down your cheeks, embrace them with care remember, tears don’t mean that you are weak they’re just a sign that you’ve suffered and learnt alot! Feel comfortable with whatever you actually are. I don’t want you to have a regret at yourself, because you are lovely, you are beautiful. Take it easy! Don’t complicate.

Feelings…

*They are a part of us,say alot about us. Not necessarily always good but we need to accept them in order to give time and let them process the best possible way.*

Do you always feel good or happy or great? Or do you sometimes feel like you aren’t able to accept your feelings? Feelings are a part of us and they indeed say alot about us,but do we actually accept them the answer is no we don’t. Sometimes when we feel sad or when we agonize over something we try to avoid it (our feeling). We try to ignore the way we are actually feeling, rather than accepting and giving ourselves the time we end up ignoring them, suppressing them inside us or avoiding them so we don’t have to really care about it. It’s ok to not feel good all times, everytime. It’s completely okay to realise and to accept that you aren’t feeling good. Accepting your feelings just the way they are will help you to process them and eventually work in a possible way that can help you . Today reading this blog if you’re not feeling good about anything or anyone let me tell you that it’s all normal. Feelings make an integral part of human body. There isn’t any such obligation that you’re ought to feel good everyday, everytime. Someday’s are just amazing with an energetic pump. Other days are slow you feel this emptiness inside of you and have a terrible sadness that wraps you around. All these feelings are a part of you a reminder to you that you need to look out for yourself more than you are actually doing. So do not try to avoid these very eternal part of your bodies; your feelings that won’t help you. Embrace them, accept them work on yourself, care for yourself. Remember no one is responsible for your happiness,it’s you whose responsible for how you feel. Incase you aren’t feeling good trust me let it pass through good days are on their way.

Revival🦋

It is the process of growing and moving forward which makes you die first. Nobody’s gonna tell you this and it might sound a little negative to you, but you have to face these Little deaths in the process of becoming who you want to be. You have to constantly let go of the painful things in your life. It will hurt surely it will. That’s an actual mourning process of growing and improving. But this process frees you from what is not meant for you. I’m not telling you to forget everything, we are just normal human beings in this world of billions of people. It’s actually not possible to forget hurting and painful parts of your life but you can surely forgive those parts or people. While you are growing and learning, try out these few things. Reminisce the toughest of times in your life, go back in time and remember those moments went you felt that you couldn’t make it or you couldn’t handle it but you did! You’ve gone through alot of sorrow but you did pass those sorrowful moments and you are right here smiling and radiant as a sun. Compare yourself to the older version of yours, there is growth there always has to be growth. Do not regret for what you were before or what you did! Just see the improvement as a person ,as a growing organism in this holy universe.Thank your antagonists your haters the. All Those who’ve hurt you thank them, thank those who left you alone because with their departure you’ve learnt many life lessons. So I want you all to thank all of those who are not with you today, the once who left you. Thank the universe for taking all that it has taken and giving you everything you’ve ever deserved. Lastly, Appreciate, yourself because you are surviving the ordeals of the day to day life and giving it your best to acheiving what you deserve. Remember that what’s yours will find a way to get to you. And whatever comes to you is the best for you.

Nobody’s gonna tell you this and it might sound a little negative to you, but you have to face these Little deaths in the process of becoming who you want to be. These little deaths are the failures, and rough times of your life that make you a better person.
–sweet little deaths

Let us all raise a toast..✨

Let us all raise a toast, to the once who were with you in the rough patches of your life. Let us all raise a toast, to the once who gave you shoulders to cry and hugs to caress. Let us all raise a toast to people who care about you, who have loved you ever since. Let us all raise a toast to those who you can call your family. Let us all for just a while appreciate about whatever we have in our lives, perhaps there are people who have alot less than us. Let us all for just a while be grateful for this beautiful life, the family, the loved ones, perhaps there are people who have been alone all their lives. Let us all for just a while, feel the emotions our heart has been tackling through, perhaps let me remind you that there’s nothing stronger than a human heart which has been attacked again and again but still continues to pump life. Let us all for just a while, appreciate the dreams we are able to dream of, perhaps let me remind you there are people who don’t even get a sound sleep. And now, let us all raise a toast to the once who left you, all alone in this journey of life, for all I know they just made you more stronger. Let us all raise a toast to the people who at some point may have betrayed you or hurt you, for perchance they made you a better person taught you lesson and most importantly it’s because of them you have someone worthy to be by your side. Let us all raise a toast to the failures we’ve been facing at some or the other point in our gifted life, perhaps we now know our mistakes and have improved ever since…. Lastly raise a toast to yourself! You try to be a better person daily and improve daily. For this particular moment cherish what’s your! Fall in love with yourself, don’t fear about your past. They were the once who are gone, now radiate yourself to the positive energy that you’ve been searching. Those mistakes were actually the gift of life for you to improve. Thereby raise a toast to the mornings and days and nights that you are able to live! Raise a toast to the happy moments you are able to experience! Perhaps someone somewhere, has lesser than you.

Let us all for just a while, feel the emotions our heart has been tackling through, perhaps let me remind you that there’s nothing stronger than a human heart which has been attacked again and again but still continues to pump life.
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For this particular moment cherish what’s your! Fall in love with yourself, don’t fear about your past. They were the once who are gone, now radiate yourself to the positive energy that you’ve been searching. Those mistakes were actually the gift of life for you to improve.
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One fine day✨

“*For the day you die there should be no regrets left”.*

One day you will look back at these times of your life and realize that how swiftly time grew up with you. One day you will see that the situations that were triggering, the people who hated you, were actually the once who made you strongest of all. One day you will realize that days turned up into weeks, weeks turned up into year’s and years turn up into decades. Soon you will want to relive those younger, euphoric and golden day’s of your life. One day you will sit and imagine how magical life is! How magical we humans are, we who have the power to store memories in our heart. One day you will realize that how powerful you were to tackle a particular situation. No, you will not judge yourself on what you did, or what you could do. Instead you will cherish those days and would want to go back in time. Life is just going to swift away as you see by and as you live by. Live your life to the fullest. So that one day when you look back at the previous glimpses you won’t ever regret. Life your life such that you can find happiness even in the small moments.

It’s one life,
But you can live many times.
As it’s said,
You can go far,many miles……..
Smile, dance sing and laugh,
So that you can make,
It live large….
We have one heart,
But we create many arts!!
As it’s said,
You can make smile many hearts…
Live, love and create big moments!
So that you can have an happy ending…

For the day you die,
There should be no regrets left
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