At some point or many times we all have been through this feeling called guilt. The guilt of doing something bad to someone or the guilt of hurting anyone or even the guilt of choosing something that was a bad decision you’d always regret for. At some point or many times we have been through this feeling or maybe much more than just a feeling or even an aftermath called shame. The shame of being left alone, the shame of taking a step forward for which no one volunteered and perchance even the shame of being kind for helping someone. The guilt and shame of every bad decision is one of those major causes of hurting again and again over our former selves. But let me tell you good news, the reason you have this guilt, denial, angst, and disapproval for yourself is because you have realised and made the progress your way. If you can forgive someone else; why can you not forgive yourself? You did your possible best formerly, and heck you are trying to be better today! You did all you could to stop them from leaving you, but they did not realise your love and kindness! You tried to bury your feelings inside and they always tried to ignore it. You kept forgiving them and they were still partial towards you. You’ve been kind to everyone you could, before even being kind to yourself, so now it’s time to elevate yourself with self-forgiveness. Self-forgiveness was never about being selfish; in fact it is a realisation that what’s done cannot be undone. It is a form of self-love you need to show to yourself before showing it to anyone else. Forgiveness has always been two ways, one for yourself and then for the else. It is a subtle realisation that you need to move forward, that you need to stop hurting over the former incidents. After all, remember you can never forget something that has been cruel to you whether a person or a situation but you can completely forgive it and you can forgive yourself for it. You and your worth are always the primary beings that you need to preserve, all the rest are secondary or if that is bad consider it as non-existing. Self-forgiveness not only teaches you to be kind to yourself but to be kind to others as well. It makes you realise that before anything; you are a divine homebody that you need to preserve. Before the guilt consumes you or before the things become traumatic for you learn forgive yourselves. Don’t feel the shame about how they left you even though you loved them, feel the grace in your aura that your destiny has even the best. It’s completely okay to feel guilty if you’ve been bad to someone but you’ve learnt your lessons so well that you will do better every time you show up. With self-forgiveness you’ll invite the power of facing yourself confidently every time you have to make decisions. Remember, the homebody, the powerhouse, of goodness is within you, make sure you preserve it well!
You did all you could to stop them from leaving you, but they did not realise your love and kindness! You tried to bury your feelings inside and they always tried to ignore it. You kept forgiving them and they were still partial towards you. You’ve been kind to everyone you could, before even being kind to yourself, so now it’s time to elevate yourself with self-forgiveness.
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